Oh Black Water Keep on Rolling...
Mississippi moon won't you keep on shinin' on me...
Well. There were sweaters to finish that are SO. CLOSE. And there were posts to post about all kinds of things to entertain you.
But then today, the HEB decided time was up. The buzzer went off. And my water broke.
SIGH.
I would be joyous, but I am 34 weeks and 2 days. And that's early, especially for a caucasian male baby.
He won't get to go home with us. He will probably be intubated, and I can't breast feed him, I'll pump and hope they can feed it to him.
And we just hope he will be okay. Please Lord let him be okay.
We are in Labor and Delivery now in our high tech room with wi-fi, and as I can't sleep I'm blogging.
No pics yet, sorry. But please keep us in your thoughts and prayers. We'll likely have birthed us a teeny person by sometime Saturday...
Comments
Man-oh-man, are there some serious baby prayers going on in Davis tonight...
Posted by: Rachel | December 9, 2006 2:47 AM
Good luck! I am thinking about you way over here in France...lots of love and hope being sent your way... :)
Posted by: Sarah | December 9, 2006 3:27 AM
Oh goodness. We're pulling for you guys. I'm all verklempt just thinking about ya'll. Poor HEB! But Shelby was 35 weeks, so perhaps it will be okay. Still, it doesn't matter how fine, it just hurts to see them have to stay in the hospital instead of your arms. Blessings to you both. Keep pumping! The Mississippi moon certainly hasn't gone down on your breastfeeding career by any means. Has it? Wait, lemme check...nope, still there. Big and shiny. Oh and my hubbo was a six week premature baby and look at him now! 6'1" and smart as all get out. Love ya'll!
Posted by: rachel | December 9, 2006 3:50 AM
I'm thinking of you and the little one. My baby was born in August at 35 weeks after my water broke early too. He didn't come home with us and I developed a very close relationship with my pump. He was on CPAP for a bit and then had to be taught to eat. FWIW, they thought that was par for the course for that gestational age. It was hard and heartbreaking but now he is home and fine and amazing. I pray all will be well with your llttle one and I am SO HAPPY for you. I know you are worried but try to enjoy your labor (sounds nuts) and hope for the best. I've heard of 34 weekers who have had no problems whatsoever. Just depends on the kid and I have a hunch HUB is a strong guy :-) Email me anytime if you need some support - I sure did.
Posted by: Julie | December 9, 2006 5:08 AM
I am sending up prayers for you guys now and lots of good ju-ju. I have no baby stories to share....wish I did but I have also heard of lots of 34 weekers that were born with problem free. It is obvious that your baby already has a ton of love around him with you & HE hubbo--just keep sending all that love down to him. I will be thinking of you.
Posted by: Tina Leigh | December 9, 2006 6:46 AM
I'm with you all the way. You all will soon be holding your brand new baby. I can't wait to see him myself! Lots of love and prayers from me too...
Posted by: Carolyn | December 9, 2006 7:29 AM
I am sending lots of positive thoughts and prayers down to you.
Posted by: Kathy | December 9, 2006 7:36 AM
HEJ, I'm another premmie mum, my 3rd babe was a male caucasian born at 34w 3d. He wasn't intubated, and I hand expressed then pumped until we went home when he was 3.5 wks old (38w gestation, my local hospital was brilliant and I got to stay the whole time). He's now nearly 4, with no long term effects from being prem, and you would never know the rough start he had to life. Babies are amazingly resilient creatures, they work it out pretty quickly. ONe of the best things I was able to do was hold him to my bare breast whilst he was being tube fed - he got to know that that feeling and smell meant satisfying his hunger. If you can, see if your hospital has an IBLC or contact for a La Leche League representative (I'm not sure how it all works in the US), they have a lot of experience with prem babies.
But whatever comes to pass, I'm praying for you and your HEF (High Energy Family!!)for the arrival of a safe and healthy babe.
Posted by: Alison in Australia | December 9, 2006 8:20 AM
Thinking of you and your little one! Take care!
Posted by: Zonda | December 9, 2006 8:25 AM
Oh my goodness!!! I am just in awe that you are blogging in labor. :-) Lots and lots of prayers for you and HEBaby. Update us when you can.
Posted by: sarah b. | December 9, 2006 8:29 AM
Sending the best of safe and warm thoughts to you, John and your most perfect new one.
Posted by: Elspeth | December 9, 2006 8:55 AM
How cool that the hospital has wifi! Hope you and HEJ birth a happy, healthy baby.
Posted by: Kathode Ray Tube | December 9, 2006 9:03 AM
I'm adding my prayers to yours that he will be alright. Hang in there, and keep up posted if you can.
Posted by: Liz K. | December 9, 2006 9:07 AM
I will be thinking of you - take care!
Posted by: Jillian | December 9, 2006 9:09 AM
Praying so hard right now for you, J & the boy! Tommy is too! He wants to meet his little playmate, but I had to explain to him it will have to be a little while, and after his head cold is gone.
Jenny, you are very brave and strong and you're gonna pull through this with flying colors, and that baby is going to come out already the awesomest kid.
Also, the lactation consultant there is fantastic, and I know you will have lots of help with the pumping thing. And since I pump too, I'm also available if you need some company!
I'll wait to try and call you until later; I remember what it is like and you may not want to talk on the phone right now. But if you are able to keep checking your laptop in your super high tech room, I hope you will read this soon and know that your whole family is enveloped in a coccoon of safety and warmth and love and prayer. We love you! (So does my mom; she reads this too, and knowing her, I am sure she is a-praying away.) xoxoxoxo MJ
Posted by: MJ | December 9, 2006 9:11 AM
Thinking of good thoughts for you three, lots of good thoughts!
Posted by: Siow Chin | December 9, 2006 9:13 AM
Jenny, you and your family are in my thoughts. Take care!
Posted by: Leslie | December 9, 2006 9:13 AM
Sending all good thoughts your way! I know it's not what you planned, but that little guy just couldn't wait to get out and meet his parents. And who could blame him? Can't wait to meet him!
xoxoxo
Posted by: stephanie | December 9, 2006 9:33 AM
Hang in there, girlie! There's a massive bunch of good thoughts and prayers heading your way - we all love you guys and I know that you're gonna rock this.
And I so can't wait to meet Tiny Energy Schmoo.
Posted by: Carrie | December 9, 2006 9:39 AM
Many many prayers and love to your family! You, HEH & HEB are going to do great!
Posted by: KT | December 9, 2006 9:48 AM
Praying for you and baby and High Energy Husband!! The little guy is going to be just fine, he's got the well wishes of bazillions of knitters worldwide behind him, and that's powerful stuff. We love you!
Posted by: Mary-Heather | December 9, 2006 9:57 AM
Sending good thoughts and prayers your way :)
Posted by: Moni | December 9, 2006 10:00 AM
oh my!! that was so quick! well, the good news is that a baby is considered full term at 37 weeks and you have been looking mighty big so i'm guessing that HEB will be just fine with a little stay in the hospital. one of my coworkers gave birth at 30 weeks and her daughter is doing great now! you're in my thoughts!
Posted by: gleek | December 9, 2006 10:03 AM
Oh! Sending positive happy thoughts your way!
Posted by: Julia | December 9, 2006 10:09 AM
Oh, HEJ you and the wee one and the high energy hubby are in my prayers. This has got to be very scary for all of y'all. There are terrific doctors and great facilities where you are, and I know they'll do a great job. Many positive thoughts and prayers for a happy, healthy little one.
Posted by: natalie | December 9, 2006 10:20 AM
Prayers going out for all three of you. Lots of love and good vibes being sent your way.
Posted by: Sarah | December 9, 2006 10:32 AM
JENNY!!! ALL MY LOVE AND GOOD THOUGHTS TO THE THREE OF YOU!! I'm here if you want to talk about anything! EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE.
LOVE YOU LOVE YOU LOVE YOU!
Posted by: Cara | December 9, 2006 11:21 AM
I'm thinking of you guys! Lots of prayers are heading your way.
xoxoxoxo
Posted by: allison | December 9, 2006 12:21 PM
Good luck! Health and safety to all of you!
Posted by: P | December 9, 2006 12:27 PM
Happy thoughts for you and the HEB!
Posted by: Lauren | December 9, 2006 12:29 PM
Our prayers go out to you. One of my toddler's best friends was born six weeks early and he's the most adorable, talkative little boy you'd ever want to meet. With parents like you, HEB will thrive!
Posted by: Brynne | December 9, 2006 12:41 PM
Don't worry my son was early too maybe earlier than we thought by the due date and he is more than fine. We are all praying for you and wont stop even after he is home with you, all of our babies need prayers all the time. Good luck with the delivery and stay strong for yourself and HEB.
Posted by: Wanett | December 9, 2006 12:56 PM
I will be sending great thoughts to you and baby HEB:)
Posted by: Jeanie | December 9, 2006 1:03 PM
I'll be thinking of you and the HE fam.
Posted by: Kristi | December 9, 2006 2:18 PM
Jenny! It's only been five months since my own little peanut was born and I can easily put myself in your hospital room and empathize. I am sending piles and piles of good love and blessings to you and your HEB, with faith that he will be just fine. Please keep us posted when you feel up to it. xoxxo
Posted by: Karma | December 9, 2006 3:11 PM
I'll be thinking of you, sending good vibes south. Take care of you!
Posted by: maya | December 9, 2006 4:31 PM
We hold you, your husband, and the little one in our hearts, in our hope for you, and in our prayers...
Posted by: Janice in GA | December 9, 2006 4:46 PM
Praying for you and your family, Jenny!
Posted by: Michelle | December 9, 2006 6:16 PM
Safe, healthy, stress-reducing thoughts to you and your family.
Posted by: anne | December 9, 2006 6:19 PM
Prayers for your whold family.
Posted by: Kathy | December 9, 2006 7:57 PM
Still thinking of you and sending you LOVE. Haven't stopped thinking about you ALL DAY. Just had to comment again.
Posted by: KT | December 9, 2006 8:15 PM
DPNs and fingers and toes crossed for you and HEB!
Posted by: Rossana | December 9, 2006 8:59 PM
Hoping for good news soon!
Posted by: Catherine Harrison | December 9, 2006 9:24 PM
Lots of prayers and good thoughts!
Posted by: Adelle | December 9, 2006 9:46 PM
Sending you love and good thoughts from Maryland! I will be thinking of you and pulling for you guys!!! I hope everything is ok!!! and CONGRATULATIONS, MOMMA!
Posted by: Lara | December 9, 2006 10:26 PM
Thinking good thoughts for you and the new HEB and hubby, hope all is well...
Posted by: heather | December 9, 2006 10:37 PM
Still sending tremedous love down south! Can't wait to see the new babe - I'm sure he's gorgeous. LOVE YOU!
Posted by: Cara | December 9, 2006 11:07 PM
Many prayers going out to you and HEB!
Posted by: Anita | December 10, 2006 12:04 AM
my little one was born 6 months ago at 36w2d. she had no problems at all, we had to stay in the hospital for me (i had pre-e). she is now a little chunker and is in 12 month clothes (she was 5 pounds when she was born). things will be good, that little HEB will be perfect! pump away, that mommy milk is some kich ass stuff! many many prayers and thoughts coming your way.
Posted by: cori w | December 10, 2006 1:48 AM
OH OH OH!
really really great thoughts coming your way. xo
Posted by: Rachael | December 10, 2006 3:11 AM
Sending good vibes your way. I will be thinking of you and your family throughout the day.
Posted by: Melanie | December 10, 2006 7:37 AM
x0x0xx0xox0xox0x0xox0xox0xoxo
Many good wishes and thoughts coming your way . . .
Posted by: Ann | December 10, 2006 10:46 AM
Speaking up to let you know that many, many prayers and postive thoughts are being sent your way. My sister just delivered twin boys Thursday. They were 35w 3d and doing wonderfully. Keep your spirits up and know that much love is going out to HEB.
Posted by: lurker missy | December 10, 2006 12:18 PM
All the Fricks here in Frickville are thinking healthy baby thoughts for your HEB! Go, baby, go!
Posted by: JulieFrick | December 10, 2006 3:30 PM
Lots of positive baby thoughts being sent your way! Please take care of yourself.
Posted by: Kristina | December 10, 2006 6:57 PM
Thinking good thoughts for your high energy family!
Posted by: molly! | December 10, 2006 7:27 PM
Hang in there! I'm keeping you in my thoughts. And the little one!
Posted by: Robyn | December 10, 2006 11:32 PM